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Finding Your People: Why a Welcoming Community Matters in High School

Group of happy girls in the hallway at Mt St Mary Academy

As you consider where to spend your high school years, you’re probably thinking a lot about academics. You’re asking about AP classes, college acceptance rates, and challenging courses. All of that is important, of course. But there’s another, equally important factor that can make or break your high school experience: community.

A school can have the best academic program in the world, but if you don’t feel a sense of belonging, it can be tough to thrive. Your high school years are a period of immense personal growth, and having a supportive community can make all the difference. It’s where you’ll find your confidence, your voice, and your life-long friends.

At MSM Academy, we believe that the learning that happens outside the classroom is just as valuable as the learning that happens inside it. Our mission is to provide an environment that is not only academically challenging but also nurturing, where every student is seen, heard, and celebrated. So, why does community matter so much, especially for young women? 

It’s the Foundation of Confidence. In an all-girls environment like MSM, a special kind of bond is formed. There are no social pressures to fit in with another gender, allowing you to be unapologetically yourself. This freedom to explore your interests and talents is a huge confidence booster. When every leader on campus is a girl—from the captains of the sports teams to the presidents of the clubs—it sends a powerful message: “You can do anything.” This isn’t just a feel-good idea; it’s a proven fact. An all-girls environment empowers young women to become confident, capable leaders.

It Makes Learning Better. Think about a classroom where you feel comfortable and respected. You’re more likely to raise your hand, ask a question, and share your unique perspective. That’s what happens when you’re part of a strong community. At MSM, our teachers know you as an individual – not just a name on a roster. This personalized attention, combined with a supportive classroom environment, encourages collaboration over competition. Students work together, help each other, and celebrate each other’s successes. This shared academic journey can make even the toughest subjects feel more approachable.

It’s Where You Find Your Passion. High school is the perfect time to try something new. Maybe you’ve always wanted to learn to code, but never had the chance. Or maybe you’re secretly a great debater, but were too shy to join a team. A strong community provides a safe space to explore these interests. At MSM, we have over 30 clubs & organizations, from our all-female marching band to our Blue Light Student Newspaper. If you don’t find a club that interests you, you can even start your own! These clubs are where friendships are forged, skills are developed, and passions are ignited.

It’s Where You Build Lasting Relationships. The connections you make in high school can last a lifetime. Our students often talk about the sisterhood that extends far beyond graduation. Our alumnae community is a powerful network of accomplished women who are eager to support each other. Our Big Sister/Little Sister program is a perfect example of how these relationships start early. A senior takes a freshman under her wing, helping her navigate her new world, and that bond often continues for years. These relationships with your classmates, teachers, and alumnae become a key part of your personal and professional network.

It’s the Heart of the School At the end of the day, a school is more than just its buildings and its curriculum. It’s the feeling you get when you walk through the doors. At MSM, that feeling is one of warmth, welcome, and belonging. It’s the laughter in the hallways, the cheering at a big game, and the collective sense of purpose you feel during a school-wide community service project. Our Core Values of lifelong learning, moral integrity, social justice, and service to and inclusion of others are not just words on a page—they are lived out every single day, creating a community where every young woman can be her best self.

“The heart of our school is truly our community,” says Mrs. Katherine Spillman, Principal. “We often say it’s like a sisterhood here because that’s what it feels like—a place where every girl is known, valued, and encouraged to be her most authentic self. It’s a special feeling you just have to experience.”

As you and your family continue your high school search, look for a school that feels like a second home. The right community will not only support you through challenges but will also celebrate your successes, push you to grow, and give you the confidence to become the kind of leader you were always meant to be.

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